(This is my post for Friday. I was too exhausted last night to write it.)
One of my very best friends lives in the Bay Area. She grew up in the midwest and went to Creighton with me so she's really a midwesterner regardless of what her drivers license says. Anyway, she was visiting this summer and we were sitting outside eating ice cream. A woman ran by while out for a jog and smiled at us. I smiled and said "hi". Then this happened:
Sara: "Do you know her?"
Me: "Nope. I've never seen her before in my life."
Sara: "Oh; that's right. I forgot that people smile at complete strangers here."
Yes. Yes, we smile at complete strangers here. And that is a good thing. Today, while walking into HyVee an old (really old) woman stopped to talk to me about the drastic turn in our weather. And when I was waiting in line to check out the (old) woman in front of me turned around, looked at the 3 items in my hand, and said, "You go ahead, honey". I smiled. She smiled. We smile. And I'm glad we do. People can bash the midwest all they want; it won't change the fact that we smile.
Ever since I read this I have paid attention to the people who smile at strangers and strike up conversations. Yay midwest living ;)
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